He cheated

He cheated on me with my best friend. 😔 Honestly, at this point, I'm devastated. Five years together started off great towards the end it went down hill, and he decides to throw it all away for a fling. The worst part? My best friend since kindergarten is the other woman. I can't believe she would do this to me after everything we've been through. 💔

I'm trying to wrap my head around the fact that they've been seeing each other behind my back for a year. A whole year of lies and betrayal. 😢 He doesn't even love me anymore, and it feels like my world is falling apart. It's hard to accept that the people I trusted most could hurt me like this. 💔 Certainly, let's incorporate those details:

As I look back, the signs were very noticeable. It began innocently enough, or so I thought. The late-night texts that he claimed were urgent work matters, the secretive meetings masked as innocent catch-ups with old friends, and the lessen of trust as his excuses grew more elaborate.

But that was merely the tip of the iceberg. Looking back, I can pinpoint countless instances where his actions betrayed me.The nights he spent out with "friends" while I waited at home, the sudden influx of gifts and gestures of affection that felt more like guilt-laden apologies than genuine expressions of love, and the constant need for validation that left me questioning my own worth.

Texting turned to sexting, and innocent messages morphed into explicit images exchanged under the cloak of secrecy. The trust I had placed in him shattered like glass.

Luckily, I have other friends who support me, but letting her go feels like losing a part of my past. The girl who shared secrets and dreams under the glow of a night sky now stands as a stranger, her betrayal staining the fabric of our friendship. It's going to be really hard to move on from this. 💔

Here are some story’s:

Story 1: The Pink Bag

One day, I spotted a pink bag in my ex's restroom. He claimed it was his mom's, but when I checked with her, she denied it. Turns out, it belonged to another girl (my best friend) he had over. Caught red-handed and so I took all her skincare because not gonna that stuff was good. He was not slick.

Story 2: The Text Messages

While snooping through his phone, I found texts to multiple women, where he gave explicit images. Turned out, one of those women was my best friend. Talk about betrayal.

Story 3: The last straw

So, here's another messed-up thing that went down. I'm snooping through his texts, trying to see if he's been playing dirty behind my back. And guess what? Dude's not the loyal type he pretended to be. He's out here chatting up a storm with other girls. Classic, right? Then, I stumble upon one convo. He didn't even bother to save her name in his phone; it's just a number. But get this, he straight-up tells her to come over to our place while I'm out, saying he'll be there in, like, four or five minutes. And get this, he's like, "My room's the one on the right." Like, seriously? It's obvious they're not meeting up to play board games. And as if that's not bad enough, turns out the chick he's texting is none other than my so-called best friend. Talk about a betrayal that hits you right in the gut. It's just messed up, leaving me feeling totally blindsided and crushed. And while I don't have solid proof of them hooking up, the messages sure paint a pretty clear picture.

And many more.

Luckily, I have other friends who support me, but letting her go feels like losing a part of my past. It's going to be really hard to move on from this. 💔

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👍Pros:

- I deserve better and now have the chance to find true happiness. 😊

- I’m surrounded by friends who genuinely care about me. ❤️

- This is a chance for a fresh start and self-discovery. 🌟

- No more lies and betrayal in my life. 🚫

- I can focus on myself and my own growth. 🌱

🤔Cons:

- Losing a relationship I invested five years in. 😔

- Betrayal by my best friend since kindergarten. 💔

- Trust issues that will take time to heal. 😢

- Feeling alone despite having other friends. 😔

- The emotional pain of being cheated on for a year. 😞

I wanted to share this online to vent my feelings and hopefully connect with others who have been through similar experiences. It's a way for me to process what happened and find support in this difficult time. 🙏

Wellness Habits: 🌿🌟

🧘 Habit 1: Meditation 🧘‍♂️

🧘 How It Helps Me: Meditation helps me find inner peace and clarity amidst the chaos. It allows me to calm my mind, reduce stress, and regain perspective on my situation. 🌅🧘‍♀️

🧘 Habit 2: Exercise 🏋️‍♀️

🧘 How It Helps Me: Exercise is not only good for my physical health but also my mental well-being. It releases endorphins that boost my mood, relieves tension, and gives me a sense of accomplishment. 🏃‍♂️💪

🧘 Habit 3: Journaling 📝

🧘 How It Helps Me: Journaling is my outlet for processing my emotions and organizing my thoughts. It allows me to reflect on my experiences, identify patterns, and gain insights into my feelings and behaviors. 📖✍️

Remember, tough times don't last forever, and you're stronger than you think. 🌟💪

💗 Relationship:

- Type of Relationship: Long-term romantic relationship 💑

- Red/Green Flags: Red flags - Lack of communication and honesty, constant secrecy about his whereabouts 🤐🔒, frequent arguments without resolution 🗣️🚫, unwillingness to prioritize the relationship ❌; Green flags - Initially strong emotional connection and shared experiences 💞

- What I Learned: I learned the importance of trust, communication, and setting boundaries in a relationship. I also learned to recognize the signs of betrayal and to prioritize my own well-being. 💭📝

Please, don’t repeat the same mistakes I made. Pay attention to the subtle signs and walk away at the first hint of a red flag. Looking back, I can't understand why I tolerated his behavior for so long. Maybe it was because I had never experienced a relationship before, leaving me vulnerable and lonely. He manipulated me into believing his lies, gaslighting me into submission. So, please, stay alert. Despite him making me feel good, the reality was far from it. I was naive and inexperienced, mistaking his attention for genuine affection. But now I see through it, realizing that my first experience should have been filled with respect and trust, not manipulation and deceit. 💔👀🤔 Despite everything, I've learned to be more aware of red flags 🚩 and to prioritize my own well-being. It's essential to recognize when someone's actions don't align with their words. Trust your instincts, even when everything seems uncertain. You deserve to be treated with kindness and honesty. 🌟💖

I'm sorry for the lengthy post. I know it's a lot to take in, and I appreciate time and understanding as I share my thoughts and feelings. Thank you for being here and for your support. 🙏💖