arguing bc my "bf" and my bsf talk way too much!

do you think its ok for your girl best friend to talk to your guy best friend that's basically your bf all day long constantly, and then tell him you like him and try and keep it a secret??

i get mad all the time bc the constantly text and never let me see what they are talking about even though that's basically my bf. i never said they had to completely stop texting but i just said stop talking all day everyday. so now they "stopped talking" and i kinda feel bad. do you think i should feel bad? please help ya girl out.