But I don’t want to take them out :(

Hello beautiful ladies!!!!

Welcome back 🤭 if you don’t know me, my name is Kari and I am STILL TRYING at the #lemon8challenge 7 weeks later. Thank you again for another successful post, even though everyone crapped on me - It still pushed us to 100k impressions🥳 I loved stirring the pot in the comments, so hopefully the community on lemon8 isnt too bitter with me still.

Today, women, I wanna talk about something that I have struggled with for probably half my relationship thus far. And that is my nipple piercings!!

I got my nips pierced about 3-4 years ago now. And mind you, I got these out on a whim with 2 of the bestest friends from the military, so I didn’t think I would be as attached to them as I am. Regardless of how annoying it can be with how much attention they draw from unwanted eyeballs. But having them in became a part of me! Like I was one with the nipple piercings 🤣 Not only to mention how much pleasure they gave me. My nipple piercings empowered me, like sex wasn’t about pleasing men anymore, it was about pleasing myself. After I got them, I had a snap in personality. They made me freakier, more outspoken, and I started picking up men I wanted left and right. (Not like that something to brag about apparently).

I have always gotten compliments on them by men I’ve dated or (not dated) in the past.. never once has a man not liked them or had a negative opinion on them. Actually most men get all giddy when I take my top off and they see them.

I met my boyfriend about a year ago now, we went on 3-4 dates before I let him take me home with him. And to my surprise (not gonna lie) when I took my top off, this man didn’t rush to suck on my, what term do men like to call them? Titty sprinkles? HAHA JAIL. OKAY, ANYWAY .. had to throw that in there.. he didn’t say anything about them at all!! And I know it’s not because of the lack of surprise, since we met in the winter time and - trust honey, I was not running around in tank tops in December. And I was pretty curious about this, and the curiosity definitely stemmed from insecurity because the thoughts of “is he used to seeing them?” Came up a lot.

Eventually after seeing my boyfriend a few more times, at this point we had made it official between us, I outright just asked his thoughts on nipple piercings in general. To which he straight up told me he didn’t like them. I came up with the game of a million questions as to why… and he couldn’t tell me a definitive answer other than a shoulder shrug and “yours are cool though”. I wonder if he’s trying to save me from telling me he thinks they’re trashy or saying I’m a wh—re. We’ve talked about it since and he suggests I take them out. Which I’m coming to terms of understanding.

Moral of the story, eventually I know I have to take them out. I don’t want my newborn sucking on piercings. But how sad it is to come to terms with retiring 1 piercing…but retiring 2 piercings??? Hell. I know my days of running around pleasing other men are over, even though that was never the intention behind getting them was to “please men,” it was always intended to please myself…Hence why they stimulate MY nipples…but I know no one will accept that. I have to accept that. I know i’m not a single woman any more, and possibly one day when I go through my mid life crisis I’ll snap and get them again. Hopefully.

Anyway, do you have a piercing you painfully know it’s time to retire? Spill the tea girl

As always, my DM is open to anyone struggling with suicide or self harm. Please if you’re reading this, you’re not alone!! I love you, thank you for being here💕

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