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My boyfriend and I have been together for officially over 7 years and we've gotten a BTO ๐ However, as he graduates this year and I follow suit next year, many people have started to warn us about... faithfulness. ๐
๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ 7-๐ฎ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ฉ๐๐? โก
It's a term coined from a western movie which is a myth that dissatisfaction in a relationship typically happens around the seven year mark.
I first heard about the 7-year itch when I was in secondary school via watching a short film on YouTube loooong ago. I thought it was Butterworks, but it turned out to be JinnyboyTV. ๐ Both their films were always so good and all the mini messages they add at the end always pack a punch.
๐๐ค๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐๐ค๐ฎ๐๐ง๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐จ ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ & ๐๐ช๐ฃ
๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ค๐ช๐๐๐ค๐ช๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐จ๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ง๐จ โค๏ธ
People are usually impressed and surprised in a positive way when I share that my bf and I have dated for this long. I guess it's a good thing! Being together for 7 years has helped us see the good (and things to improve) in one another, and we're not afraid to communicate about it.
We keep things fresh by sharing the latest date ideas with one another on social media, and intentionally being interested in each others' daily life, hobbies, career, faith and friendships.
As a couple, we enjoy going for interactive exhibitions, doing things together (even chores & DIY spa days lol) and watching movies. We also looove going to JB. We enjoy food too, and we treat ourselves once in a while when we feel like it. Knowing this, both of us take the effort to share these lobangs to see if each other is interested.
We find things to laugh about and share joy together, and we struggle and cry together. It goes without saying every couple has their tense monents, but the key is to putting love before all disagreements. That has shaped our way of communicating and listening to one another.
๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐๐ค๐ช๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ 7-๐ฎ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ฉ๐๐
Hmm, I think it's just a term coined by the media. When you take the effort to see the best in one another and support each other through the lows, I think there's continuous growth in every moment. Even now, I'm still learning the most random things about him. It's good to be kaypoh I guess. ๐
It's important to draw healthy boundaries too, and communicate!!! Especially to share concerns, excitements and uncertainty in upcoming life transitions openly. Emotional maturity and stability is a key part of this too. Life is always changing, and dating to marry is about learning to journey with one another through it all and NEVER, never having a low bar for commitment.
I think choosing the right partner is also extremely crucial in the success of your relationship - a marriage makes you better or worse. I thank God daily for my boyfriend and how he takes care of both of us. I deeply enjoy serving together with him, and our constant prayer revolves around pointing one another back to God as our first priority above all else. โค๏ธ In my other post, I mentioned this important advice (negotiables/non-negotiables) that I give to the girls when I talk to them about relationships.
Thanks for reading this far. Are you in a relationship? What do you think about the 7-year itch? I'd love to hear from you. ๐ #GirlTalk #relationshipadvice #Lemon8Diary #Relationship101 #Adulting101