Don’t Let 11.11 Catch You Single

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Girl, Don’t Let 11.11 Catch You Single—Here’s How to Find That Holiday Boyfriend (P.S. He Could Be Japanese 😉)

Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas… you do not want to be the only one single on 11.11, scrolling through deals instead of spending time with a boyfriend, right? But don’t worry—there’s still time to find that special someone to spend cozy holiday moments with! 🧣✨

the hardest part is always starting the conversation. If you’re stuck on how to break the ice, I’ve got you covered! One fun way to get the convo flowing is by talking about love languages—trust me, it works every time! Here’s a little guide to get you started:

1️⃣ Love Languages 101:

• Physical Touch: “Do you think hand-holding should be mandatory on cold winter walks?”

• Words of Affirmation: “What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?”

• Gifts: “If you had to give the perfect Christmas gift, what would it be?”

• Acts of Service: “What’s something thoughtful you’ve done for someone that made them smile?”

• Quality Time: “What’s your ideal way to spend a holiday weekend?”

Understanding and talking about love languages can lead to deeper conversations about what really makes someone happy in a relationship. Plus, it’s a great way to see if you two vibe on an emotional level!

Don’t Be Shy to Ask These 5 Questions:

• What’s your favorite way to spend weekends? This gives you a glimpse into their interests.

• Are you from New York originally? Learning about their hometown and family helps you connect on a more personal level.

• What are your hobbies? Share some of yours, too! This shows whether you have common interests.

• How would your friends describe you? This tells you how self-aware they are and their relationships with others.

• What type of girl are you looking for? 🔥 This is THE question to understand if he’s looking for someone like you.

Honestly, if he’s genuine, the conversation will flow naturally. If he’s closed off or shady, well… that’s a red flag we’ll spot from a mile away. (Sis, we’re not here to waste time!)

I’ve even heard whispers about scoring a dreamy Japanese boyfriend on 📍MixerDates, and who wouldn’t want that?!

Plus, it’s the perfect place to find someone serious just in time for the holidays. So, instead of spending 11.11 chasing discounts, sign up and start chatting. Who knows, by Christmas, you could be exchanging gifts with someone special—and trust me, that beats any Black Friday deal! 😘

Ladies, what are you waiting for? Your holiday romance is just a swipe away. 🎄👻

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